Great Resource - The Game by Neil Strauss

The Game by Neil Strauss you can buy it here

Neil is a journalist who, with a certain amount of trepidation entered the world and community of the professional pick up artist - those who have devoted their lives to the art of seducing women - and developed his own skill level to be considered one of, if not the best.

The book is great for tips and ideas as well giving a fascination story of the growth and development of the 'pickup industry' - with all the success, frustration and raw humanity exposed. It's both sad, touches lots of nerves and tremendously empowering.

Both men and women reviewers on amazon give this book top marks.

Because of his reputation Neil was asked, among others to be interviewed by Tom Cruise, Britney Spears and Courtney Love - and gives some fascinating insights into all of them.

A quote from Neil towards the end of the book sums it up for me.

"I needed Mystery, Ross Jeffries, David DeAngelo, Daxid X, Juggeler, Steve P, Rasputin and all the other pseudonyms. I needed them to discover what was me to begin with. And now I have found that person brought out of his shell, and learnt to accept him, maybe I've outgrown them...

"I've spent two years meeting every girl in L.A. and out of all of them I chose you ( his girl friend) .....I realised it wasn't entirely accurate. If there was anything I'd learnt, it's that a man never chooses the women. All he can do is give her the opportunity to choose him."

Neil Strauss

http://www.neilstrauss.com/

It also has a comprehensive glossary of the code used by pick up artists - examples:

AFC - noun (average frustrated chump): A stereotypical nice guy who has no pickup skills or understanding of what attracts a women; a man who tends to engage in supplicative and wimpy patterns of behaviour around women he has not yet slept with. Origin: Ross Jeffries.

Chick Crack - noun: any spiritual or psychological subject that appeals to most women but does not interest most men, such as astrology, tarot cards and personality tests. Origin: Tyler Durden.

DHV - noun or verb (demonstration of higher value): A routine in which the pickup artist displays a skill or attribute that raises his worth or appeal in the estimation of a women or group; it is intended to make him stand out from the other, less interesting men in the club. Autonym: DLV (demonstration of lower value).

Field Test-verb: to experiment with and perfect a pickup tactic or routine on a number of women in different social situations before sharing it with other pickup artists.

Freeze Out-verb or noun: to ignore a women to make her seek validation; used a technique to counter last minute submission.

Group Theory - noun: the idea that women are usually accompanied by friends, to meet her a man must simultaneously win the approval of her friends while actively demonstrating a lack of interest in her.

NEG - noun: an ambiguous statement or seemingly accidental insult delivered to a beautiful women a pickup artist has just met, with the intent of actively demonstrating to her (or her friends) a lack of interest in her. For example "Those are nice nails; are they real?"Origin: Mystery.

ONE-ITIS - noun: an obsession with a girl whom one is not dating; pickup artists believe that such a fixation on one women significantly lowers a man's chances of dating or sleeping with her. Origin: John C. Ryan.

Push-Pull - noun: a technique used to increase or create or increase attraction, in which a man gives a women indication that he is non interested in her followed by indication that he is. This sequence can take place in a few seconds - such as taking a womens hands and then dropping them as if you don't trust her yet - or over time, such as being very nice over one phone conversation but being very uprupt over the next. Origin: Style.

Shit Test - noun: a question, demand, or seemingly hostile comment made by a women intended to gauge whether a man is strong enough to be a worthy boyfriend or sexual partner. If he takes the question, demand or question at face value he fails and generally looses the opportunity to move forward in his interaction with her. Examples include telling him he's too young or old, or asking him to perform an unnecessary favour.

Three second rule - noun: a guideline stating that a women should be approached within three seconds of first seeing her. It is intended to prevent the man from thinking about the approach too much and getting nervous, as well as to keep him from creeping the women by staring at her for too long. Origin: Mystery.

Any questions give me a call.

Michael
(01908) 506563
PPI Business NLP Ltd

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Geat resource - Steve Boyley's seduction mindmap

Steve Boyley's seduction mindmap

http://www.nlpmind.com/seduction.htm

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Michael(01908) 506563
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Great Resource - Seduction 101 website

Worth a look - all sorts of resource:

http://www.fastseduction.com/

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Michael
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PPI Business NLP Ltd

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Great Resource - Charisma Arts website

Charisma Arts provides coaching for men on the art of meeting and attracting women, and connecting with all people.

Some of their blogs I like:

"On average, men probably have 3 or 4 soul mates that they come into contact with in their lives. In my opinion, the ultimate end of the art of seduction is to be sure you don't screw up when you come across these women (or at least the last)."

Christian Hudson

Together with,

Many people resist approaching strangers because

So often you and I try to relate to what she says. That is fine. However, we want her to be relating to us as well.

Before I became a pick up artist I was a street performer. The idea of street performing is to get a few people to become interested and stop and then build a huge crowd of fifty


See: http://www.charismaarts.com

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Michael
(01908) 506563
PPI Business NLP Ltd

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Confessions of a palm reader - part 1

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Palmistry :

I really enjoy reading palms and in addition to it being fun I do it for three reasons:

• A surprisingly easy and effective way to really get to know someone
• To give them some genuine, unique and positive new insights about themselves
• Sometimes we develop a strong bond / connection between us

It's really a mix of palmistry and mild (and very safe) hypnotic skills.

My approach is to explain is that I develop a connection with whoever's palm I'm reading; create a really safe space between us so that they can safely explore anything that comes up - and they can totally be themselves. They do NOT have to share any of their private thoughts although they may choose to do so. And the palm reading provides a framework to the content we may choose to explore.

In the right circumstances this creates the possibility of the person whose palm is being read to connect with their inner wisdom - which is very powerful.

When I feel/look at palms I look at the difference between their hands which compares their potential to what they've already achieved.

I look at the shape of the hand - Elementary (nature loving, physical), practical (pragmatic, reliable) , spatulate (confident, mechanical), conic (imaginative, creative), philosophical (intellectual, cultured), psychic spiritual, mystic ), mixed (flexible).

I look at the key lines of the hand - Heart (emotions), head (intelligence) and life (spirit/energy) and compare potential with what's been achieved.

I look at the key mounts of the hand Venus (love), mars (coping with life) and Uranus (unconscious abilities - intuition etc) and again compare potential with what's been achieved.

Within the unconscious (if I'm talking to a women) I point out that she has a special place where she holds her secret desires, fantasies, daydreams - where if she finds the right person to explore them with her can reach heights of ecstasy and can reach and develop her potential as a women; if she finds the wrong person it may cause extreme pain - but oddly enough can still enable her to reach her potential as a women. But many women don't always have the courage to share these thoughts with lovers or husbands or even themselves.

Is any of the above based on any reality at all? In a way it doesn't matter - the test of any NLP is not is it true - but does it work?

So in the name of science (?) and to get some concentrated practice in I bought a VIP card at the local lap dancing club and set off to see how many more palms I could read......

You maybe surprised at the results,

To be continued....

(NB an excellent palmreading book is "The complete idiots guide to palmistry" which you can read about / buy here)

Seduction the NLP Way - The seminar

Advanced notice - Seduction the NLP Way - The seminar

I'm delighted to have been asked by the Cambridge NLP group to lead this seminar,

When: Tuesday, 12 September - 7:00pm to 9:00pm
Where: The Conservatory Restaurant, Chequers Lane, Papworth Everard, Cambridgeshire, CB3 8QQ, UK (Please note the venue is under review).

This is likely to be the most thought provoking, entertaining and best value NLP event you've ever attended!!

You may never be the same again. And it will significantly help your networking and selling skills.

The seminar is very much designed for both men and women, (often women are more in tune with the content than men), it is also designed for those with partners (please bring them), and those without (up to now anyway.)

While the material is still being developed the agenda will include:

• Ethics
• The romantic hero/heroin
• A model for seduction
• Story, state and belief
• The introduction
• Developing an emotional connection
• Setting challenges and introducing sexual tension
• Closing
• What you're mum and dad maybe didn't tell you

For more information see: www.nlp-seduction.co.uk

NB the entrance fee is £5

Also see The Cambridge NLP groups website

This seminar will be sold out - reserve your place now

Michael

(01908) 506563

PPI Business NLP Ltd

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Have you played the cube? - Play the game but keep the secret

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Spread the Word.....But keep the secret,

The cube is an imagination game - and more - that holds a secret you dare not reveal. Last seen making the rounds in the coffee houses of Easter Europe, the cube is rumoured to be of Sufi origin, but know one knows for sure. You can buy a book on the cube here.

If we suggested a 5 stage model of seduction:

• making contact
• developing an emotional and intuition connection
• raising a challenge and sexual tension
• demonstrating you're safe / comfort
• closing

Playing the cube is an an excellent way of developing or improving the second stage; whether you want to take it further or not.

Ask your partner or potential partner to:

Imagine a desert landscape with nothing more than sand, sea and a horizon.

Imagine a cube in it. Describe it - what do you see (hear, feel, taste or smell), what is it made of, where is it, how big is it?

Add a ladder to the landscape. Describe it - what do you see, what is made of, how big is it, what is its relationship with the cube?

Add a horse. Describe it - what do you see, what sort, colour, what is it doing, what is its relationship with the cube?

Now somewhere in the landscape is a storm, what kind is it, how (if at all) does in effect the cube, ladder or horse?

Add some flowers. Describe them. What kind, size? What is their relationship to the ladder horse and storm?

Now visualise the whole scene. What do you see, feel, hear and smell.

What does this mean?

Do not read this until you've done the exercise!!

The cube is you,

The ladder are your friends,

The horse is you lover,

The storm is the storm that will occur from time to time in life,

The flowers are your children.

Michael
01908 506563
PPI Business NLP